Have you ever made a commitment to doing something and then found it really hard? Perhaps a friend has asked you for a favour and you’ve agreed before finding out what they want, and what seemed like a simple job turns into a nightmare. Or perhaps you have started to decorate the lounge only to realise that the plaster is really damp and you need a new damp-proof membrane. If we are not going to just put our heads in our hands and give up, these circumstances call for perseverance.

What other kinds of things have you had to face? Where have you had to persevere against the odds? … Perhaps it is a visit to the hospital, and as you sit waiting for your appointment, or in the casualty department, you begin to realise just how dependent you are on others, how out of control life feels. Or the trip to the benefit office, where you are asked all sorts of intrusive questions and you feel like walking out, but you know that you have to stick it if you’re going to get the cash you so desperately need. Or perhaps you are struggling with the cost of feed and seed rising and the value of grants and the income from produce depleting.

Our Gospel reading this morning talks of a woman facing just this kind of circumstance. Can you imagine how she might have been feeling? Waiting for someone else to do something. Being rebuffed time and again. Sitting in the waiting room, wondering if this time, on this visit, something might be done to change her circumstances. How does she feel? …… Perhaps you can hear the desperation in her cry for justice, “For heavens sake, grant me justice against my adversary. Things just cannot go on like this. I can’t cope any longer.” …. Or perhaps you can hear her anger, “I’m not moving from this spot until you grant me what I ask. And I mean it! I’m not moving, not an inch.” ……

So, what kind of circumstances do we face where Jesus’ advice applies? … Perhaps it is our own personal or family circumstances. We have a long-standing illness or complaint. We have somehow found ourselves in conflict with another member of our family, and we are no longer talking, and perhaps that circumstance has lasted for years. Perhaps we have been trying to get justice, or deal with noisy neighbours. Perhaps we have been unjustly accused.

Perhaps it is the world in which we live – perhaps we are weighed down by the conflicts which surround our world and which we wish were resolved – in Ukraine, in Palestine, in Sudan, in Myanmar, among the drug cartels in South America. Perhaps it is the injustice of the distribution of the world’s resources, or even the poverty some face in our own country, even in our rural communities.

Perhaps it is the life of our own churches. Numbers seem to be decreasing, hope for the future life of our congregations just seems to be ebbing away, where are the next generation of church goers?

In all of these areas, what would Jesus say to us? … We have his answer in our Gospel reading. … “Always pray and never give up!” And how do we respond? … “Oh, we’ve tried that and it didn’t work?” …. “Always pray,” says Jesus, “and never give up! … Demonstrate your faith and trust in me by praying and believing that I can change these circumstances.” … “Believe me, trust me,” says Jesus, “Don’t give up on me!”

Jesus challenge is to a renewed commitment to prayer. ……

How can we do this? …. Firstly by making space in our day, perhaps only a little time in the busyness of our lives when we say to God, and remind ourselves that all these things are in God’s hands. That we can trust God. … Secondly by making time to pray together as churches, time to listen out for God speaking to us. These are words in season for us. If we are serious about facing the reality of where we are as churches, with declining numbers and with an air of despondency over us. If we want things to be different, then we need to pray. Even if our prayer is something like this. “Lord, I believe but I also doubt. I fail to consistently trust you. I cannot see where the answers will come from. It all seems hopeless. I am not even sure that you hear my prayer. But, Lord, please act, if you are there and you hear me, please respond!”

With prayers like that, we are in good company – listen to the Psalmists speak out their prayers:

Psalm 10:1: Why, O Lord, do you stand far off? Why do you hide yourself in times of trouble?

Psalm 13: 1-2: How long, O lord? Will you forget me for ever? How long will you hide your face from me? How long must I wrestle with my thoughts and every day have sorrow in my heart?

Psalm 22: 1-2: My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from the words of my groaning? O my God, I cry out by day, but you do not answer, by night, and am not silent.

Like Jacob, in our first reading today, wrestling with God, fighting his fears and doubts, Refusing to let go until he receives God’s blessing, our prayer needs to be honest, embracing our hopes and fears. Like the widow in the Gospel reading, it needs to be persistent and faithful even in the midst of our doubts.

In the midst of the praise and rejoicing that is so much a part of the Psalms, we hear the honest cry of hurt and anger, of loss and anguish.

Let’s heed Jesus’ story of the widow in our Gospel reading, and chose to persevere in prayer, whether our faith is strong or weak, looking to God to act and change things.